A post that does justice to the title of my blog - twisted scribblings:

The world is at war, and the biggest conflicts are happening in our minds. In these dark times, viewed through my vile eyes, it is super important to know - no, to realize - a few things. The world is not in black and white, what applies to some need not apply to others. What you read in books may not suit you. I read today in two different books conflicting ideas about emotional independence. That doesn't mean the books or right or wrong - they are just "brain stimuli". One says being dependent on anyone is foolish, the other says, it is the way to go. But we are free to choose either one, or a middle ground. Ideas and principles need not be discrete all the time - at times, discreteness make things harder.

Now and then, problems don't get solved when we think about it. They mutate to assume more dimensions, and try to overwhelm us. The critical point is to realize this, and stop thinking. (Programming theme : Like a program that understands it is in an infinite loop, and comes out of it automatically.) Do we attack the root cause of problems in these cases? Maybe not, but who knows, Time may solve the problem for us eventually :)

When some things cannot be judged as right or wrong, it is better to weigh them based on their cause and effect. Loneliness is just a state of the mind. I wonder if being lonely and happy has anything to do with maturity.